Ever wondered how to stand out and be the one woman he admires and thinks about? In this article, I’ll share 3 things any woman can do to make a man fall head over heels. (I know these work from personal experience… because my wife used them on me!)
When I first started dating my wife, there were three things she did that made her stand out for me and paved the way to the greatest love story of my life.
In this post, I’ll share exactly what these 3 things are, and how you can start using them today to show your man the qualities he longs to see in the woman of his dreams.
Before I get started if you’d prefer to watch and listen rather than read, here’s the video version of this post:
Still reading? Let’s get into it…
Dating Technique #1 Let him take the lead
I was so used to dating women who were in their masculine energy, and because of that, I had fallen into a feminine receiving state.
While that’s also fine, it wasn’t lighting me up, it wasn’t firing up the part of my masculine brain that wanted to be a provider, and that would often lead to me losing interest in previous relationships.
I remember a specific time when dating my wife, we had scheduled a date, and we arranged to meet at a 7-Eleven before going in the same car to the restaurant.
We got to the meeting spot, and I remember asking, “Where are we going?”
So when I got to dating my wife Irene, I was pleasantly surprised when she said “I don’t know where we’re going.
You tell me… You’re the guy!”
Immediately I realized it was on me to create an awesome date, so I stepped up, and I LOVED it.
Irene told me “I like Italian and I like sushi, so either of those places I’ll be good with.”
I quickly found a sushi place, and we were off, and I felt pleased that I could provide for her and present her with a plan.
Dating Technique #2 Celebrate him! (But don’t give credit for free)
When we went to the sushi place, the other thing Irene did was tell me
“Oh my gosh, I love this place. This is so cool.”
While the pressure was on me to pick a good place to go, she celebrated me and my decision, which created a huge payoff!
I remember thinking “Yes! I accomplished what she wanted… I delivered happiness”, and this is what men want to do in a relationship – provide and make their woman happy.
If you want help with creating that pay-off for him, stepping into your natural feminine energy, and making him want to give, even more, I encourage you to check out my Manifest Your Man program.
Inside, I’ll share advanced techniques to attract your dream guy, and stand out in his mind as the only woman he can see himself growing old with.
Before we move on, it’s also worth noting that while it’s GREAT to celebrate him and praise him when he does something that pays off, you also shouldn’t give credit away for free.
Don’t try to praise him constantly, only give authentic credit where it’s due.
This brings me to….
Dating Technique #3: Set clear standards and boundaries (and make him earn your trust)
After this date at the sushi restaurant, I took Irene on a walk along the pier and asked her if I could get a kiss…
I remember clear as day, Irene said to me, “I’m sorry, but I don’t kiss on the first date. I am trying to get to know you.”
It wasn’t something that she was willing to just freely give away before truly getting to know me, and that was so unusual for me to hear.
Instantly in my mind, I was thinking, “Okay, what is going to be required to earn that place in her life, to be the man who can give her a kiss?”
And so, Irene made me see her differently from other women I had dated because she owned her standards, claimed what she wanted, and shared them with me.
To do this, you’ve got to be brave enough to scare a guy away, because to make the right man fall in love, you’ve got to be willing to make the wrong man run!
In other words, if all a man wants is a hook-up, and you’re interested in something long-term, you want to ‘scare’ that man away because he doesn’t align with your standards.
So there you have the three things my wife did when we were dating that made me fall head over heels for her.
Give these a try and let me know how it goes!
Now I have a question for you…
What are some things that you know, or have seen that help a man fall in love? Share those dating techniques with us in the comments section below!