I asked my (now married) clients what mindset shifts helped them call in the marriage of their dreams. Here’s what they said, and how you can use it to bring about true love in your own life!
Have you ever heard the statement “You don’t attract what you want in life, you attract who you are”?
Well, it’s absolutely true. And recently I decided to put it to the test by asking women who got married after working with me:
What are your lives like now? What shifts helped you call in the marriage of your dreams?
It was a simple question, but with it came a huge discovery…
See I found that there are three common things ALL women say about the shift they made to call in their future husbands.
When they were able to make these mental shifts, opportunities began to appear to bring a phenomenal relationship into existence.
And today, we’re going to explore what these shifts were, and how you can make them yourself, to turn up the volume in your own love life!
Let’s dive into the 3 mindset shifts…
1.You feel loved and accepted – Mindset secret number one is to feel loved and accepted where you are. When you can embrace the feeling of being relaxed, not chasing a relationship or lacking something in your life, you’ve moved from lacking energy to having energy.
Married women feel secure in where they are, and this feeling of being loved and accepted gives rise to a peaceful state.
Attaining this state of peace, prior to even meeting someone special, will open the door to allowing an incredible connection to occur.
You can begin to condition yourself to experience this state by visualizing your new husband being in the house with you. How will you act around him? What sorts of things will you do together? Try to picture it with as much clarity as possible. The feelings of peace and love will surely follow.
2.You’re filled with gratitude – The next mindset shift is to be grateful for a relationship (even before it happens). It’s obvious that married couples are going to feel thankful for the special person in their lives. So when you can begin to feel grateful before you’ve even met this person, it sends a powerful signal to the universe saying “I’m ready for this!”.
I encourage you to do anything you can to feel more gratitude in your life. Whether that be taking time to be more mindful of the small things, or physically writing down a list of all the things you’re grateful for each day.
Before long, you’ll notice that you’re able to think of more and more things to be grateful for. Your outlook will begin to shift and you’ll begin to open to more experiences in your love life that you can be grateful for.
3.Your heart is open – The final mindset shift is to have an open heart. If you think about when you’re in a loving relationship, your heart is open because you’re sharing it with your man. It’s not guarded or closed down. By accepting your man fully, you also accept yourself fully (and vice versa).
It’s important to make a distinction here that having an open heart is not the same as being careless with your heart and giving trust before it’s earned. But giving a man the opportunity to earn your trust, and win your affection begins with an open heart.
When you worry about getting hurt, and you approach a new relationship in a guarded way, you don’t allow space for the connection to spark. It’s like a flame with no oxygen and it usually gets snuffed out pretty quick!
Try to approach each new connection with an intention to give this man a chance. Instead of feeling guarded with these new interactions, I encourage you to ask yourself, “What would it take for me to truly open my heart fully, so I can welcome the love I want?”
So there you have the 3 proven ways to raise your love vibration, as tested by real women who are now married.
If you’ve understood the mindset shifts that make true love possible, but you’re unsure how to create that mental change in your life, I encourage you to check out my Self Love Activation Kit.
This kit is designed to replace feelings of unworthiness with powerful affirmations to support you in who you want to be. Elevating your sense of self-worth and increasing your ability to give and receive love!
Now I turn the question to you. What would it take for you to feel more at peace in your life right now? Is there anything you could share with our community to help women make this shift?