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The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women: Mastering a Successful Mindset

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By: Lauren Brollier Newton
Updated: February 20, 2025

6 Secrets to Releasing Imposter Syndrome & Creating Massive Momentum in Your Business

Have you ever caught yourself wondering, “Who am I to do this?”, “Who would ever listen to me?”, or “What if I’m not good enough?” 

If so, you’re not alone. Many professional women, especially those in the helping fields, suffer from the impostor syndrome. 

You may chalk up your accomplishments to luck rather than skill, agonize over every tiny detail, and doubt your worth—even when you’re bright, capable, and passionate about your work.

But here’s the truth: impostor syndrome is not unique to women, and the most successful coaches you admire have had the same thoughts. 

The difference? They don’t let those thoughts define them. 

Instead, they’ve mastered a successful mindset—one that allows them to move past self-doubt and create the impact and abundance they desire.

The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women — and How to Beat Impostor Syndrome

Building the success mindset of an abundant coach can feel weird at first. You may think you’re deceiving yourself, because your reality doesn’t reflect the level of success you desire… 

Yet. 

But make no mistake – this is the key to unlocking your full potential and becoming a thriving coach.

The good news is that it doesn’t have to be complicated. Just implement the following principles and you’ll see your mindset (and business) transform.

Successful Mindset Secret #1: Don’t Agonize Over Tiny Mistakes

Imagine this: You’re writing a social media post to share your message, and instead of hitting “publish,” you spend hours rewriting it, worried it’s not *perfect*. 

Sound familiar? 

Many professional women get caught in this loop, believing that one small mistake could ruin their credibility.

But here’s the thing—your audience isn’t looking for perfection; they’re looking for connection. 

Every successful coach has made typos, stumbled over words, or said something they later reworded. The key is to keep going instead of freezing in fear. 

Mistakes are proof you’re taking action, and action leads to results.

Successful Mindset Secret #2: Focus on a Growth Mindset Over a Fixed Mindset

A fixed mindset tells you that your abilities are set in stone—you either “have it” or you don’t. 

A growth mindset, on the other hand, reminds you that every skill, every success, and every breakthrough comes from learning and persistence.

Instead of thinking, “I’m not good at selling my coaching services”, reframe it to, “I’m learning how to confidently offer my services, and I’m getting better every day.” 

Success isn’t about innate talent—it’s about continuously expanding your capacity.

Successful Mindset Secret #3: Notice Your Limiting Beliefs

If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t deserve to charge for my coaching”, “There are too many coaches already”, or “I need more credentials before I can start”, those are limiting beliefs—false stories that hold you back.

Start questioning these thoughts. Ask yourself, “Would I say this to a friend?” 

If the answer is no, then it’s time to let go of those limiting beliefs and replace them with empowering truths. 

You DO deserve to be paid. There IS space for you. You ARE ready to help people now.

Successful Mindset Secret #4: Act “As If” and Embody Your Successful Identity NOW

Success isn’t something that happens to you—it’s something you become.

Think about the version of you who already has a thriving coaching business. 

How does she think? How does she show up? What decisions does she make?

Instead of waiting to feel confident, act “as if” you already are. 

If a successful coach wouldn’t hesitate to share her message, then post that content. If she speaks confidently about her offers, then practice talking about your coaching without apology. 

The more you embody success, the faster you’ll step into it.

Successful Mindset Secret #5: Stop Comparing Yourself

Have you ever scrolled through social media and thought, “She has it all figured out. I’ll never be that good”? 

Comparison is one of the biggest mindset traps, and it’s simply not the truth.

The reality? You don’t need to be perfect or have everything figured out. 

To make an impact, you only need to be “two steps ahead” of your client. If you have tools and insights that can help someone move forward, then you are qualified to coach them.

Think of it like climbing a mountain. Your clients don’t need someone at the summit—they need someone a little further up the path to guide them forward. 

That’s you.

Successful Mindset Secret #6: Set Perfectionism Aside and Embrace Progress

Perfectionism often leads to procrastination, and procrastination keeps you stuck. 

Instead of holding yourself back, start where you are with what you have.

If you’re hesitating to launch your business because your website isn’t “just right” or your messaging isn’t “perfect,” take a step anyway… 

And I can guarantee you’d be surprised at how much you can accomplish through “messy action.” 

Progress compounds quickly, and before you know it, you’ll be miles ahead of where you started. Success comes from consistent action, not from waiting for the “perfect” moment.

If you’d love to know more about simple habits to thrive as a coach, click here.

Ready to Step Into Your Highest Potential and Claim Your Success?

Shifting your mindset is powerful, but you don’t have to do it alone. 

If you’re ready to fully step into your purpose and make your coaching dream a reality, I have the perfect next step for you… 

The FREE 5-Day Challenge Life Coach Accelerator 

This immersive experience will help you create a vision-driven, step-by-step plan to build a thriving coaching business. You’ll get the structure, mentorship, and support you need to accelerate your success—so you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.

Your success is waiting. It’s time to claim it.

Reserve your spot right here.

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About Lauren Brollier Newton

Lauren Brollier Newton

Lauren Brollier Newton is an award-winning inspirational speaker and transformational coach. After getting certified as a Life Mastery Consultant with Brave Thinking Institute in 2018, Lauren started her own life coaching business helping people all over the world achieve their dreams and create richer, more fulfilling lives. As a part of her dream to make an even greater difference in the world, she regularly partners as adjunct faculty in Brave Thinking Institute's Coach Certification programs. She is dedicated to helping coaches around the world create lives and wildly successful businesses they love.

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