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Mat Boggs

I’m very grateful to be able to introduce to you our trainer today, who’s coming in to pour into you to help us understand how the mind works, how we get in our own way, and how we can overcome that. This woman is absolutely amazing. She’s an internationally award winning hypnotherapist with advanced certificates in hypnotherapy from the Hypnotism Training Institute of Los Angeles.

 

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Mat Boggs

Not only that, but she’s got additional studies in hypno healing, medical hypnotherapy, Gestalt analysis. And she has dedicated the last three decades of her life to researching and testing and applying the most beneficial principles of hypnotherapy, psychotherapy, NLP, CBT to neuroscience to helping people create breakthroughs in their life. And she’s combined all of that into a unique, rapid, transformational therapy that is phenomenal and has literally helped transform tens of thousands of people.

 

00:01:31:18 – 00:01:56:07

Mat Boggs

I would even guess to say millions of people worldwide overcoming their own blocks, their own personal challenges so that they can live happier, freer, more fulfilled lives. I’m very grateful to be able to introduce to you the amazing Maurice appear to this stage. Hey, how are you? I want to help you today. Learn how to manifest. Learn how to manifest abundance.

 

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Marisa Peer

And like we said, understand how the mind works. So let me quickly give you a crash course in exactly how the mind works. The mind works by listening to what you say really tunes into your thoughts and we all think that it’s enough to wish and dream and hope, but it really is. And I’m going to just take you quickly through a few rules of the mind.

 

00:02:15:02 – 00:02:33:03

Marisa Peer

And here’s a rule of the mind every thought you think is not a thought. It’s a blueprint, but your mind, your body, your very psyche work to make real. And so if you knew that your thoughts were a blueprint, what would you do? You think better thoughts. And this is something that when I first realized it, it kind of blew my mind.

 

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Marisa Peer

You may not know what your mind job is. You might think your mind job is to make you happy, to keep you safe. Your mind’s job is actually to make every thought you think real. And we know that. So if I feel embarrassed, I might go bright red. If I think a sad thought, my eyes will fill up with tears.

 

00:02:48:22 – 00:03:11:13

Marisa Peer

I might be watching an advert for kitten on YouTube, but the sadness a little abandoned cat. My eyes are going to fill up with tears. If I think about food, my tummy will rumble when I’m not even really hungry. And if we think about sex, our body is very good at making that physical. And the most powerful fact of how a thought is made real by the body is what we think of a drug.

 

00:03:11:15 – 00:03:29:09

Marisa Peer

The Seebohm effect is getting strong. Every way you think of a drug will have more of an effect on you than what’s in the drug. So every day, if you’re getting bread, if you’re tearing up, if you’re getting physically aroused, if you’re getting tummy rumbling, you’re making a thought real. That’s your mind’s job. Your mind job is to make your thoughts real.

 

00:03:29:11 – 00:03:52:00

Marisa Peer

So what? Your job. Your job is to think better thoughts. Not sometimes. All the time. Think better thoughts. Stop saying I’m scared. I’m excited. Stop saying I can’t remember to say I’ve got an amazing memory. Stop saying if I look at a cake, I get fat and say I got a fantastic metabolic rate, so abundant. You know, we abundance is something we can all have.

 

00:03:52:00 – 00:04:10:20

Marisa Peer

Abundance means having a lot of good stuff all the time. When I was having my baby, didn’t think, should I have a smart one or a pretty one? Should I have a healthy one or an intelligent one? I wanted my baby to have everything smart, beautiful, sunny disposition. I wanted to have everything. And I didn’t think, well, maybe you can have everything.

 

00:04:10:22 – 00:04:34:08

Marisa Peer

It’s not possible. Something’s got to give. But when you. Thank you for answering the questions exactly correctly. So when you’re wanting an abundant life, there’s a couple of things you have to do. First, you know, we’ve all thought, well, surely I can just sit here and manifest it, but not quite. If you want abundance, the first thing you must do, 80% of what you must do is believe you were worth it.

 

00:04:34:10 – 00:04:49:18

Marisa Peer

You are deserving of it and you can have it. So let’s do a little thing right now. I do it every day with my students. I want you to think of something you require. I don’t like the word one because wanting is very wanting. I want to think of something you require for yourself. It doesn’t matter what it is.

 

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Marisa Peer

It can be a beautiful house, beautiful partner, great body, an abundant life, a great career, a pair. I think something you require and I want you to really see it and say, I’m worth it. I’m worth it, I deserve it, I deserve it. Because if you can’t do that, they do that bit those silly, uncomfortable, fake. If you think, oh no, I don’t.

 

00:05:13:01 – 00:05:31:18

Marisa Peer

I just want to go straight to it. 80% of your success in living an abundant life comes down to one thing. Do you have an abundance mindset? If you haven’t got one, it okay, you go to go out and get it. But how do you get an abundant mindset? 80% of your success comes down to having I’m worth it mindset.

 

00:05:31:18 – 00:05:51:20

Marisa Peer

I deserve it mindset. I’m going to do some hypnosis in a minute to really help work that in. But before we even do that, just sit and say with me right now, I am worthy of the thing I require. I deserve the thing I require. I’m deserving of what I require, and I’m worthy. Now add it to the statement so you require pay rise.

 

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Marisa Peer

A wonderful lover, a gorgeous partner, your own business. I want you to add that now. So sit. Take a deep breath. Don’t gobble this or rush it or whisper. Say it with unshakable conviction and certainty in your voice. I am worthy of requiring and I’m going to say dot, dot, dot. That could be a pay rise. My own business, my own home, a great partner.

 

00:06:17:23 – 00:06:40:16

Marisa Peer

I am worthy of finish the blanks I’m deserving of finish the blanks. I am worth I deserve. And just sit with that and repeat it over and over again. And remember, if it feels silly, unfamiliar. One of the rules of the mind is it wants to go back to what is familiar while getting away from what is unfamiliar.

 

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Marisa Peer

That’s a fact is another fact. You can make anything familiar if you sit with it and say, I’m worthy, I deserve it. I’m worthy of love. I’m deserving of love. I’m worthy of well, you see, think of the lane you’re in. You can’t be in two lanes. I want to be great. But I shouldn’t brag. And I want money.

 

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Marisa Peer

But then you never know who your friends are. I want my business. But I’m going to be working 18 hours a day. So now you’re driving in two lanes. Get into one lane. Think of the thing you want to say. I live an abundant life, I attract abundance, I have abundance thinking do not go. Oh yes, but what if it goes wrong?

 

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Marisa Peer

And what if I don’t know who my friends are? Nobody likes me. Get a little saying for yourself. I have an amazing product. People love working with me. I am an outstanding coach. I am a brilliant therapist. The words come out of my mouth and amazing. I’ve got this great product. People love buying it. You see, you need to really excite your imagination, give you a couple more rules of the mind it likes really exciting words, so turn your mind.

 

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Marisa Peer

Or imagine in the shower, which is a meditative state and a water is pouring down. Imagine in that state you say things like, I’m just showering in abundance. I’m just feeling abundance flowing to me, flowing through me. But here’s the thing. Many of us think I’m going to be a millionaire or a billionaire, but we don’t think about what we have to do.

 

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Marisa Peer

So to attract immense wealth. The first step is to know your worth. The second step is to imagine what are you going to do to attract wealth? What could you create? You know, James Dyson didn’t create a vacuum cleaner. He simply upgraded what was already there. I became a billionaire very, very quickly. Lululemon didn’t invent little black leggings, but became the most expensive, most popular leggings in the world.

 

00:08:34:24 – 00:08:58:07

Marisa Peer

Well, could you create or improve? What could you take that’s already there and make better? What could you do? And even if you don’t know yet, just keep saying, but there’s something, something I could monetize, something I could bring to the world. If you’re a coach, if you’re a writer, you could look at someone like Tony Robbins, who’s taken coaching so far, J.K. Rowling.

 

00:08:58:07 – 00:09:25:13

Marisa Peer

He became a multimillionaire from writing about a wizard who would have thought he could be a millionaire, from creating trainers or bottles of water. Or. So I want you to think about what you could do. And even if you don’t know what it is, I want you to still have the feeling I could do something amazing. I could create something, do something, monetize something, upgrade something.

 

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Marisa Peer

What could you do? You know, we know the girl who made period pants, and that was almost a fluke. And she has become a billionaire from that one thing. And it came about completely by accident. So this is a three step process. The first step, and it’s the most important step. I’m worth it. I’m worth it. I deserve it, I’m worth it.

 

00:09:48:05 – 00:10:07:22

Marisa Peer

When you’ve done that and you must do it every day I go into step two, which is take a look at what you want. For me, I wanted to write books, but when I looked at it with x ray vision, when I look at everyone around and through what I’ve really, really, really desired, I understood something. Owner then, and I don’t want to write books.

 

00:10:07:22 – 00:10:27:21

Marisa Peer

I want to write bestselling books that change people’s lives. So now I could see what I want. And then I saw something else. You see, whatever you require will require something of you. If I want to write a bestselling book, I’ve got to have the courage to go and meet agents, literary agents, publishers. I’ve got to believe in my worth.

 

00:10:27:21 – 00:10:45:20

Marisa Peer

But I could do that. You know why? Because I did. Step one. So step one believe you’re worth it. Step two look at what you have to do and then do. Step three go and do it. Ed Sheeran didn’t ever think he could be a rock star. He was turned down so many times he had to sit and go, I deserve this.

 

00:10:45:22 – 00:11:07:03

Marisa Peer

I write beautiful music. I deserve to be a millionaire. I think I should look what he had to do. What he had to do is actually bus key. Bus starts I train station to tube station, Boston to. People began to say, wow, I love your voice. And then he went out and got the biggest record deal. He’s one of the richest musicians in the world because he did three things, believes it was worth it.

 

00:11:07:03 – 00:11:33:24

Marisa Peer

First, 80% of your success is do that over and over again. You cannot do it enough. The second step is take a long, hard look at what you think you want, look over it, look around and realize what I want requires something of me. I bet if I’m going to be a bestselling writer, I better learn to be a speaker because if you can’t speak, you can’t go on talks and talk about your books and you’ll never be a bestselling writer.

 

00:11:34:01 – 00:11:55:08

Marisa Peer

So if you want to be a marketer, you have to know, understand search engine optimization. I’m here in this amazing, stately home in London teaching people artists. But we have a marketing department. We teach our graduates how to market their skills, have to find price. It’s not enough to get him a great therapist. Amazing. But no one knows who I am or where I am.

 

00:11:55:08 – 00:12:19:13

Marisa Peer

We have to learn market buying, speaking, presenting. The great news is if you’ve done step one, I’m worth it. You’ve done step to look at what I want. You will see me to do. Step three go out and get it because you did step one. So take a minute and look at that. Step one every day I’m just going to sit and go I worth it, I deserve it, I’m worthy of it.

 

00:12:19:13 – 00:12:41:00

Marisa Peer

I’m deserving of it. I’m ready for I’m ready to do whatever it takes. I want to have a long, hard look at how I can have abundance in my life. And then I’m going to go right out and get it. I’m going to create something, invest in something, do something because I know I’m worth it. And remember, the way you feel about everything is down to two things.

 

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Marisa Peer

The pictures you make in your head. The word you said. I’ve spent 20 minutes giving you better words, making your mind create better pictures, and long after I’ve gone, I want my voice to stay with you. This ability to know your worth it. To see what you want to get into one lane and stay there. But of course, to do the work you have to do the work.

 

00:13:03:07 – 00:13:21:17

Marisa Peer

The best plan in the world won’t work if you don’t work. But you know what’s so great? When you do what you love and you love what you do, you really never work a day in your life. You. Having wealth inspires, motivates others to do the same thing. You know, Richard Branson called his company Virgin. He was so naive.

 

00:13:21:17 – 00:13:41:16

Marisa Peer

He was giving people refunds, but he claims became smarter. He’s a self-made man. The best people are self-made people. They came from nothing and they have wealth. And you can do it to believe you’re worth it. Realize what you have to do and then do it. Believe you’re worth it. See what you have to do, and then do it.

 

00:13:41:18 – 00:14:04:16

Marisa Peer

It’s a circle I believe I’m worth. I know I have to do, and I do it because I’m worth. I believe I’m worth it. I know what I have to do, and I do it because I’m worth it. Is a continuous loop, a loop of success. 

 

Mat Boggs

I want to appreciate you. Thank you so much. And I want to underscore a few things that you said because it’s so profound when you were talking about what excites the mind that you’ve got to feed the mind what you would love.

 

00:14:04:16 – 00:14:26:24

Mat Boggs

We talked about earlier about notice what you’re noticing. Notice are the thoughts that you’re thinking expansive or are they contractive? And the clearer you are about the thoughts being aligned with what you want, the more power you have. And you gave two really important suggestions around creating clarity. I said that were beautiful. What are you saying to yourself?

 

00:14:27:01 – 00:14:43:22

Mat Boggs

The version of you that’s living your dream? What does that person say to yourself? But you added another, which I think is brilliant and I love it. What are other people saying to you in your dream, in your world? What are the. Yeah, what are the other people around you saying in the version where it all works out?

 

00:14:43:22 – 00:15:02:01

Mat Boggs

Because most people go to a negative example of that, like what if this goes wrong? What if people hate me? What if they criticized me? What if this doesn’t work? Versus no, what if this all goes right? What are the people in my world saying to me in that vision? And I love this nuance. Notice this advanced technique.

 

00:15:02:03 – 00:15:23:10

Mat Boggs

The mind loves to be excited. You want to activate the energy of your subconscious mind. Give it something to be excited about. It wakes up the mind. And so we talked about notice what you’re noticing and then the second tool is what would you love? The reason you go to that question is because it excites the mind. It excites the whole being.

 

00:15:23:12 – 00:15:52:14

Mat Boggs

And you talked about making the unfamiliar familiar, the unknown known, the uncomfortable comfortable. Because as you do that, you begin to relate to this dream not as something super far out there. There’s never going to happen, but as this is your normal state of being. And otherwise, when you begin to normalize this vision, because the subconscious mind can’t tell the difference between an imagined reality and physical reality, and as you normalize it as your reality, then everything begins to shift.

 

00:15:52:16 – 00:16:12:17

Mat Boggs

I just, I love that and all the beautiful words you gave us to be able to relate to our vision and the expansive life that we would love in more tangible form. It was just so, so beautiful. 

 

Marisa Peer

I just want to say one thing. There’s a very famous German called Guertin. He said, if you can dream it, you can achieve it.

 

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Marisa Peer

Boldness has genius and magic in it. Begin to dream it now. Isn’t it beautiful? It’s super. Can dream it. You can achieve it. Bonus as genius and magic in it. Begin to dream it now. Because what he’s really saying is begin to achieve it now. 

 

Mat Boggs

Absolutely, absolutely.

 

00:16:30:12 – 00:16:33:12

Mat Boggs

Thanks for joining me this week on the Abundant Coach.

 

00:16:33:12 – 00:16:39:07

Mat Boggs

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Mat Boggs

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