Here are the “3 P’s” That High-Quality Men Find Super Attractive and Irresistible in a Woman (and Guess What? You Already Possess Them!)
We all know that nice hair, symmetrical features and a nice body are attractive to both men and women, am I right?!
But attractiveness is also way more complex than that. Not to mention, the physical attributes that people find attractive are highly subjective!
So let’s go deeper… because a lot of the qualities discussed in studies and articles are really just very surface level.
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What really attracts us to one another?
Here are the three qualities, ones that I can say with certainty that you already possess, that the men around you will find extremely attractive.
And, once you dial them up, you’ll become even more attractive to the the high-quality man you desire and deserve!
WHAT MEN FIND BEAUTIFUL QUALITY #1: Passion
Okay, now I’m not talkin’ about any cheesy romance novel-type passion. Nope! I’m talking about your overall sense of aliveness.
What are you passionate about in life? What do you absolutely LOVE? And do you participate in this passion on a regular basis, so that you exude and express this energy when you’re interacting with others?
The opposite of a passionate presence is a lukewarm presence, and listen up… nobody wants that!
Lukewarm = BO-RING.
Aliveness, on the other hand, is attractive to everyone, not just men. The more aliveness you exude, the more attractive you are to those around you.
So how can you dial up your passion? Well, for starters, when we ask you something, we love it when you respond enthusiastically!
For example: If your man says something like, “Hey babe, do you want to go to the beach?” and you want to go, don’t just say, “Yeah, sure.”
Instead, if you’re into it, try something more like, “Heck yeah! That sounds amazing… let’s do it, sexy!”
For men, we want to see what you’re wild about, what drives you. This is endlessly attractive to us.
Oh, and by the way, I’m not suggesting that you should feign excitement over something you don’t actually want to do. But if you’re into something, say so! Anything between “yes” and “no” just feels… well, kinda blah.
WHAT MEN FIND BEAUTIFUL QUALITY #2: Playfulness
All of us are born with a naturally playful instinct that’s easy to lose as we get older.
As we age, the responsibilities of life can really begin to weigh on us… and this is why it’s so damn attractive when you’re able to unlock your inner playfulness in both yourself and us!
So try infusing some playfulness into your regular routine. For example, say you’re running errands at Target. You’re normally on some kind of mission to get in and get out, so that you can get what you need and just get on with your day.
But instead, what if you made the errand a little more playful?
If my wife and I are out shopping, for example, I like to find the sunglasses aisle, put on the craziest pair of shades I can find and then hunt her down in the store.
I’ll come up to her and just say, like, “Hey, lookin’ sexy over there!” and we’ll both crack up.
If you find ways to make the regular activities of life more fun, you’ll stand out to any man you’re interested in… plus you’ll make your dating experiences way more fun and enjoyable for YOU, too!
WHAT MEN FIND BEAUTIFUL QUALITY #3: Positivity
We live in a world of polarity. For every up, there’s a down. You can’t have an in without an out. So in any given moment, it’s up to us to choose what we’re going to focus on.
We can choose to focus on what’s missing, wrong or negative in a situation, but negativity is one of the most unattractive qualities we can display (this includes cynicism and skepticism, too).
Negativity will literally REPEL the kind of high-quality man you want as a relationship partner.
Dialing up positive energy, on the other hand, means dialing up our appreciation for everything around us… which increases the value of our interactions and experiences… which keeps amazing people in our sphere!
So how exactly do you dial up your positivity in a lasting and authentic way?
First, practice positivity even when things don’t seem to be going your way.
It’s easy to be positive when everything is going well in life! But the ability to be positive regardless of circumstances is a true gift.
So let’s say you and your man show up to your favorite breakfast joint and the line to get a table is halfway around the block.
You have two choices in this situation…
You can be negative and complain about how many people are there, or you say, “ “Okay, we have 45 minutes to kill… tell me a story about you that I don’t know!”
Use the situation as an opportunity to have fun and connect 🙂
So there you have it – the “3 P’s” of what men find universally and authentically beautiful.
As I mentioned earlier, you already possess these qualities, so now the job is to simply dial them up so that you’ll become even more attractive to the kind of man you’d love to be with!
And now, I have a question for you… and a very special FREE gift!
- What qualities do you find attractive in a man?
- What qualities draw you in and make you swoon that are deeper than just physical appearance?
Leave a comment below – I’d love to hear from you!
And for more insight into what men find beautiful and what you can do to increase your attractiveness to the high-quality man you desire and deserve, click here to download my FREE ebook, 5 Feminine Qualities High-Quality Men Find Irresistible.