Imagine being able to unleash a flood of positive emotions in a man… that makes him want to spend every waking hour with you.
In the past you might’ve experienced guys who are all about themselves, guys who don’t seem to actively pursue you or the relationship, or string you along with little “breadcrumbs” of attention and interest. (Or maybe you’re in that situation right now!)
If you want men to chase you, keep reading because this article is going to show you 4 steps you can take to grab his attention and ignite his passion for you.
What you’re about to read is a way you can “flip the script” on your old way of thinking, eliminate the hidden struggles holding you back and ignite your ideal man to chase you, pursue you, and feel lucky to have you in his life…
The Old “Paradigm” No Longer Serves You
Many dating coaches will teach surface-level tactics to get a man to chase you. Say this thing, do this, avoid that. The truth is, if you aren’t aligned on the inside… none of those teachings are going to work!
In this article you’ll find the 4 elements for igniting a deep, lasting revolution in your love life from the inside out. Do this right, and you’ll live life from such a different mental state that you’ll find your dream man comes running to you!
If your love life is not where you want it to be, it’s time for a revolution…
It’s time to overthrow the old “paradigm” of men not pursuing you. Get rid of the old thinking that men don’t prioritize you and start to implement a new system for your love life. One where you are feeling cherished, wanted, and prioritized.
To help me explain how you can do this, I’m going to share with you the story of Meredith, a recent client of mine. Through her story I’ll unpack the 4 elements of a true love-life revolution you can implement in your own life…
So you can attract high-quality men who will want to chase you like never before.
Love-Life Revolution Step 1: The Inciting Incident
Before any revolution there’s a build up of pain, oppression or undesirable results. It builds and builds until there’s an event that wakes people up! This is called an “inciting incident” — the first step of any revolution… something that opens our eyes to the need for change.
A client of mine named Meredith experienced this when she found herself caught in a cycle of bad date after bad date. The pain was building until finally, her inciting moment came in the form of yet another mediocre date. It was driving home that night Meredith finally said to herself, “You know what? Enough is enough.”
This is a key point…
Because Meredith’s “inciting moment” wasn’t a dramatic experience (it doesn’t have to be). Some romantic revolutions start with truly dramatic moments like a divorce or a betrayal. But everyone’s a bit different, and you may be like Meredith, where you just finally realize “Wow, something needs to change here.”
Meredith’s last, “one-too-many” mediocre date woke her up to a truth she needed to see — that the common denominator of all her bad dates was not the men… the common denominator was actually her!
Meredith realized that somehow she must be attracting these guys into her life. And if she was the one attracting these bad dates, then she could just as easily begin attracting good dates.
With this realization a new sense of empowerment washed over Meredith, and she began to consider what she could shift within herself attract the kind of man she deeply wants.
Which brings me to you, reading this…
I want to bring a potential “inciting moment” to your life right now, and invite you to think about your love life.
What thoughts, feelings, beliefs in you might be at the root of attracting men that aren’t chasing you?
Love-Life Revolution Step 2: A Call To Freedom
When Meredith realized she was the common denominator in her lackluster love life, she accessed the next step of her own Revolution – A “Call To Freedom.”
A “Call to Freedom” is all about calling yourself to a different love life. It’s making a decision, drawing a line in the sand and saying “Enough is enough — I’m going to do something different!”
Meredith found her Call to Freedom through joining me in my Manifest Your Man program. She drew a line in the sand of her life and decided she was DONE trying to be the woman she thought men wanted…
Instead, she would be her authentic self, and let men chase her as she truly was
By trying to be someone she wasn’t, men Meredith not only felt inauthentic, dates often ended in disaster when her true self would surface and not be the same as the expectations these men had come to believe.
If you want a man to chase you, it’s essential to stop trying to be who you think he wants. Anything other than the purest form of you, is a watered down version of yourself. A watered down version won’t give him the same intensity of emotion as the real you.
Knowing this, Meredith got to work and began to love herself in a new way. She began to value herself, and to realize she deserved a man who wanted her true self.
For a quick story on how Meredith rocked this lesson in the face of a real jerk, watch the video here. You’ll see how she realized she was trying to be someone else… just so he would like her! As soon as she stopped doing this, and let men chase her for the woman she truly was, everything shifted.
When you do the same, you’ll answer your own “Call to Freedom” and quickly start to see different results in your love life.
Love-Life Revolution Step 3: Band Together
Step number three is about surrounding yourself with people who are there to support you. It’s difficult to win a revolution all by yourself. Even if it’s an internal revolution in your mind!
Research shows that when you surround yourself with people who believe what you believe and can support you in your vision, that’s when you make massive improvements. Having a supportive group or a coach who can hold you accountable helps you make decisions in alignment with your Call to Freedom.
This support network is exactly what Meredith received when she signed up for the Manifest Your Man coaching program… a group of women who were all supportive, all going through similar struggles.
And, of course, a supportive coach (yours truly!) caring for her, keeping her accountable to the beauty of her true self and helping her stay true to her vision for a better love life — filled with high-quality men she deserved.
If you long to attract an amazing man who chases you, just for being who you truly are…
Then you must surround yourself with a supportive group who can help you fast-track results! Doing so will help you accomplish so much much more than trying to do it all on your own.
Love-Life Revolution Step 4: Courageous Action
Revolutions are never won without courage. To shift your love life from mediocre to magnificent will require ample courage!
You’ll need to STOP being the woman who accepts breadcrumbs or leftovers from a man, and CLAIM yourself as a confident woman who men actively chase and pursue.
To do this requires courageous action — to speak your mind and truly be yourself. It requires you to stand up for what you want, know your worth and stick to it.
This is a time when it’s important to be aware of paradigms rising up to bring you back to the old state. You’ll have paradigms saying “Don’t rock the boat!”, and asking “What if he doesn’t like it?”
But if you have the courage and strength to love yourself and value yourself enough, then something amazing will happen…
Your perfect man’s love for you deepens, his interest skyrockets, and you’ll find him chasing you like never before!
He’ll be thinking to himself “There’s just something so unique about her. She’s so sure of herself, so real”. When you start to notice his attitude change, don’t be surprised if he starts calling you regularly, asking when he can see you next!
Now to conclude Meredith’s story…
She surrounded herself with support and knew the best was yet to come. She spoke her truth to men that treated her poorly and she felt really good about doing so! All this action put Meredith on a new trajectory. She could feel her entire love life shifting…
And then COVID-19 hit!
But even in these difficult times, Meredith was able to stay committed to her Revolution. She banded together with her support group, stuck to her truth and guess what?
I’m pleased to report that Meredith met somebody. Her dream man! They actually started dating virtually in quarantine! Eventually when they were able to, they met in person. He was so creative and interesting to her, they had their first in person date on jet skis!
Fast forward to three weeks later and this man asked her to be in a committed relationship together. Meredith is a testament to the process and proves that when you apply these principles and create a Revolution in your love life, men will want to chase you with passion!
If you would like to see the same results that Meredith did, I encourage you to check out the exact same program she went through that changed her results so dramatically.
Before you go, I’m curious… How specifically would you love men to “chase” you?
Let me know in the comments below!