Here’s a simple, straightforward approach for how to get your guy to pick up the phone and call.
When you meet a new guy, it’s only natural to want to spend as much time with him as possible, calling, texting, and talking any way you can. 🙂
But what if he doesn’t call you?
I’m going to give you 5 fun ways you can get a man to call you and deepen your connection with him.
Before we get started, if you want a quick video explanation as to why your man might not be calling you, check out the video below:
I think it’s important to reiterate at the start of this article that not receiving calls from your man doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t like you…
Men are programmed to communicate in the most efficient way possible, meaning if they can get to the end of a conversation quicker, or communicate a message faster, they get a boost of endorphins that feels good!
So if your man is texting you but not calling, don’t take it personally, it could simply be the fastest way for him to get his communication across to you.
With that disclaimer out of the way, let’s get into the 5 fun ways you can get your man to call..
1 – Be Direct
Now, this sounds simple, but you’d be surprised how many women don’t ASK their man to call them! Men love direct communication that they can understand and action easily.
To do this, you could try saying something like, “I really enjoy our connection. I’d love it if you would call me. I’ll be home after 7pm. Here’s my number.”
9 times out of 10, he’ll get the message and you’ll receive a phone call that day!
2 – Generate Curiosity
Here’s a fun alternative to directly asking him for a call…
Incite his curiosity instead!
Try saying something like “OMG, I have to tell you what happened today… It’s too long to text… Call me after 8 pm?”
You don’t have to use this exact phrasing but you get the idea — when your man sees these sort of messages, he’s going to be compelled to call you as soon as he can!
3 – Be playful
If your man finds you boring through text, he’ll think you’re going to be boring on the phone too…
And nobody wants to be stuck on a boring phone call!
Now, coming across as boring might not be your fault because he might just be asking boring questions. But if you want to get him to call you, it’s up to you to spark his desire.
Why not try being playful or flirty with your answers? Perhaps you could even play a game, saying something like…
“Let’s play a game…What kind of food have I been craving? You have three guesses 🙂 Call me after 8 and if you get it right, you win a prize ;-)”
4 – Leave him wanting more
We’ve all had those phone calls that last for hours and hours, where you don’t want to get off the phone with each other because it’s so interesting. Those are GREAT calls…
But if that’s all you’re having, then it can become a barrier to having him call you more often. He might be looking at his schedule and thinking “I only have 20min, I can’t take another 3-hour call with her right now.”
Make sure you are varying the time length you spend on the phone when you talk. For example, if it’s late and you want to keep talking, tell him something like, “I’m enjoying talking with you, but I have to go, let’s talk again soon.”
In this way, you’ll leave him wanting more and have him thinking about the conversation for the rest of the night!
5 – Use Tone Change when you answer the phone
You know how people say first impressions count? Phone calls are no different!
If you answer a call in a boring tone, it sets his expectation for the rest of the call. Instead, try starting the call straight away with something that makes him smile:
“Hello? Oh hey, you! So good to hear your voice!”
Starting a call in this way immediately reminds him of the good times you have together and he looks forward to the conversation a whole lot more.
Taking It Further
Learning how to inspire him to take action and call more often is just one of the steps towards developing deeper chemistry with a man who truly cares for you, appreciates you, and treats you as a priority.
If you long to learn other techniques that create a ‘forever kind of connection’, I encourage you to check out my Manifest Your Man program.
Inside, I share some of my most advanced techniques for delving deep into the hard-wired psychology of male attraction. These techniques could be the missing piece separating you from the relationship of your dreams!
Finally, I hope you found the 5 tips in this post useful. Now I’d like to hear from you, what ways have you found to inspire your man to give you a call?
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