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Why It’s Okay to Love Money

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By: Mary Morrissey
Updated: November 1, 2016

The Surprising Limiting Belief Blocking Your Financial Success

Is it wrong to love money? Is it less spiritual to desire a lot of money? Is it really true that money is the root of all evil?

I used to think so, until…

One evening in a New York auditorium changed my entire perspective on wealth and abundance forever.

Why it's okay to love money

I’ve been studying transformational principles of success since 1971, and early in my education, I traveled across the country to see a famous spiritual teacher speak in an auditorium.

He was highly successful, filling 3,000-seat Lincoln Hall every week in New York City, teaching people transformational principles on how to create lives they love.

On the Saturday morning of his speech, I arrived early to make sure I’d secure a seat right upfront. But instead of being one of the first people there, I was shocked to find 1,000 people waiting outside the main doors!

When I finally got in and found a seat, I got my notepad out and I was ready to take notes. And then the teacher, a white-haired man in his early 80s, walked onto the stage to a standing ovation.

He was a handsome fellow, dressed in a double-breasted three-piece suit, and his face had the look of someone who was at peace with himself and with life.

What this man did at first absolutely shocked and offended me…

Moving toward the center of the stage, he took a few moments to look around the now-silent audience. And then he did something I would never have expected.

He reached into his pocket, took out his wallet, and pulled out a large wad of bills.

He then slowly fanned the bills out and held them up to the audience.

“This,” he said, looking around at the 3,000-person crowd, “is money. And I LOVE money. I just LOVE money!”

And then he brought the wad of money to his lips and kissed the bills over and over again, making loud puckering noises.

My stomach turned, my body tensed up, and I immediately felt repulsed.

I thought to myself, “I can’t believe I came all this way to listen to this man. He’s not even spiritual!”

I was shocked, disappointed, and filled with judgment and criticism. Looking around the audience, it was clear I wasn’t the only one.

Then he put the money back in his wallet, looked at the crowd, and said:

“I just want you to notice if you had some feelings of repulsion, criticism, or judgment about what I just did. Maybe you even thought that I couldn’t be a spiritual person because of what I just did.”

I nodded without even realizing it. I absolutely felt that way!

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Then he continued:

“Let me suggest something to you. Imagine if, instead of doing what I just did, I walked out on the stage, holding the hand of a darling little five-year-old boy. Then I picked him up and held him out to you and said, ‘This, this is my grandson,’ and I brought him close and said, ‘I just LOVE my grandson!’ Then, imagine I began kissing him on the head…”

I bet not one of you would have felt repulsed or revolted. Why? Because you’ve been conditioned that it’s okay to love a grandchild, but it’s not okay, or even spiritual, to love the symbol of your freedom.”

Hearing this, my mouth dropped open.

Then he said:

“Money is a symbol for you to be able to go where you want, do what you want, have what you want and give to the causes that matter to you.”

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He continued:

“So if you did feel some revulsion in what I just did with that wad of money in my wallet, I want to tell you something…Money heard you. Why would it ever come where it’s not loved?”

It’s okay to love people, things, and experiences, but it’s wrong to love money…right?

Many of us have been taught that it’s okay to love people, things, and experiences, but it’s not really okay to love money itself – the symbol of our freedom to really create and live a life we truly love living.

We’ve asked, “Is it wrong to love money?” And the answer’s always been, YES.

But this is one of the most common limiting beliefs about money, and it couldn’t be further from the truth!

Money is what enables you to be comfortable enough, so you can be creative enough to really give the gifts that are within you to the world.

Since experiencing this man’s speech decades ago, my relationship with money has never been the same.

I’ve since created several multi-million dollar businesses in order to make an even larger impact in the world, and I ongoingly give to causes that I feel passionate about – and I’ve continued to expand my awareness and deepen my spiritual practice each and every year.

The truth is, you absolutely can desire and enjoy financial prosperity AND be a deeply spiritual person.

It all begins with your belief system, what you choose to believe about money, and whether you make it welcome in your life.

You can do all of the law of attraction work in the world, but if you’re stuck in the belief that your desire for money and the love of money is wrong, it’s unlikely you’ll see the financial results you desire in your life.

Your money mindset is impacting your relationship with money, preventing you from attaining the prosperity and abundance you desire. These limiting beliefs are often rooted in our pasts and have been internalized and accepted as truth.

Your limiting beliefs around money may look like mine did – that it’s wrong or unspiritual to love money. Or, perhaps you grew up hearing that money is the root of all evil, that rich people are greedy, or that having more money only causes more problems.

Whatever your brand of self limiting beliefs when it comes to money looks like or sounds like, it’s important to recognize that you don’t have to stay stuck there.

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And while most of us desire more money or material wealth, we also want abundance in all areas of our life. If we have a ton of money in the bank, but are bankrupt in the area of health or relationships, for example, is this really true success?

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About Mary Morrissey

Mary Morrissey

Mary Morrissey is widely considered the world’s foremost expert on “dream-building,” having invested the last 40 years into studying the art and science of transforming dreams into results. Mary has also written two best-selling books, addressed the United Nations three times, co-convened three week-long meetings with His Holiness The Dalai Lama, and met with President Nelson Mandela in South Africa. Through her books, live events and programs, Mary has helped empower millions of people worldwide to achieve new heights of meaning, purpose, aliveness and authentic success.

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  1. Karen

    November 4, 2022 at 3:26 pm

    great yu tube Mary

    Reply
  2. Marius

    December 6, 2016 at 12:51 pm

    Hi Mary,

    I think the focus should not be on the LOVE for money, but more on the GOOD that acquiring it can have to those around us. Money must serve us and not us money.

    Thank you so much for your inspiration and positive seed that you are sowing. May your harvest be TRULY BLESSED!!!

    Reply
    • Bena

      November 3, 2022 at 1:05 pm

      I Love Money 💰- it’s from a Higher Vibration – when my energy flows easily, money also flows into my life – I have won the Lotto every single month since March 2021, except in September in 2022, when my energy was low; one month I won it twice and last month, in October, I won it 4 times – I say “Aregato” when I win no matter the amount and ‘I Love You’ to the Game when I did not win – most importantly, I have fun with it

      Reply
  3. Arlene

    November 17, 2016 at 12:26 pm

    Interesting.
    I had a dream about money last night, after which I woke up and reassured myself that money was just an element of exchange.
    Clearly I have blocks around openly admitting my desire for more…
    Thanks for “showing up” with confirmation-don’t you love synchronicity?
    Keep up the good work

    Reply
    • Mary Morrissey

      November 17, 2016 at 6:59 pm

      Hi Arlene!
      Yes… I love that good sync…
      Thank you for your comments Arlene and please share the article if you liked it!

      Reply
  4. Chitra

    November 17, 2016 at 10:03 am

    Mary it is 4:52 am. And reading your email. Thanks for your message. I have always been told that “you don’t know how people with money got it”. And so made me always think of money as EVIL. I like to work honestly for my money, but is never enough. I feel sad now because all these years have passed and no matter how much I pray asking god to fill my need. I could use your help understanding these concepts.

    Reply
    • Mary Morrissey

      November 17, 2016 at 7:02 pm

      Hi Chitra. Thank you for sharing this part of your journey! I really appreciate it. The important thing I would share with you is to remember that money is really only good for this purpose: it is what enables you to be comfortable enough, so you can be creative enough, to really give the gifts that are within you to the world.

      Keep studying and please share the article if you liked it!

      Reply
  5. Seham Fahmy

    November 17, 2016 at 8:14 am

    True and well said; money is the source of freedom, independence, and satisfaction provided that it is well-gotten and well spent.

    Reply
  6. Seham Fahmy

    November 17, 2016 at 8:11 am

    True and well-said; money is the source of freedom, independence, and satisfaction provided that it is well-gotten and well spent.

    Reply
  7. Elizabeth Vogt-quillen

    November 17, 2016 at 8:03 am

    Money is only a form of energy. I love energy in all its forms. I love money and money loves me. I agree with him.

    Reply
    • Mary Morrissey

      November 17, 2016 at 7:03 pm

      Thanks for your comment Elizabeth! Love it!

      Please share the article with friends and family… it will be nice to read how they feel about money…

      Reply
  8. barbara sunday

    November 17, 2016 at 1:58 am

    thank you

    Reply
  9. Eulalia c vann

    November 16, 2016 at 5:34 pm

    If I have extra money I will be able to pursue my dream of helping the homeless in my community. To me money is a blessing and if it is use /shared with the people that really needs it.

    Reply
    • Mary Morrissey

      November 17, 2016 at 7:06 pm

      That is an awesome dream Eulalia! Thanks for sharing it!
      Please stay tuned and share this article if you liked it.

      Reply
  10. tysha

    November 16, 2016 at 3:56 pm

    I have always said I don’t want to be rich I want to be comfortable. Able to pay bills on time, take trips, and help others. But it seems I always struggle with my finances.

    Reply
  11. Jagdish Jariwala

    November 16, 2016 at 8:03 am

    Attachment from inside brings sorrow and pain.

    Reply
  12. Meseret

    November 16, 2016 at 6:22 am

    It is very interesting I get a lesson

    Reply
  13. David Humphrey

    November 16, 2016 at 4:57 am

    Mary…I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Reply
    • Mary Morrissey

      November 17, 2016 at 7:07 pm

      Thank you David!

      Reply
  14. Patrick Lane

    November 16, 2016 at 2:54 am

    Money is one of my best friends that I like to share with everyone that I love and respect.
    Money will tell you a lot about of people. If they are really your friends or NOT.

    Reply
  15. CSmith

    November 16, 2016 at 1:38 am

    I believe that since money is needed, a person should love what they do to make money, honest money. People should love to care for themselves with. Their money, not love but appreciate what money has and can do for you, help make the earth better with money since it came from the earth.

    Reply
  16. Joy

    November 15, 2016 at 10:40 pm

    I live in an economy where money has little value but I have constantly declared that money in my hand has value and somehow I get to do a lot with the little I have.
    As for being spiritual….even God wants us to be rich and it is him that gives wisdom to get wealth. So in my own understanding money only implies what a man really stands for. That is if a man is spiritual, money will give him better opportunities to explore his spirituality. If otherwise, money will only aggravate his non spiritual tendencies.

    Reply
  17. Josue Jean marie alphonsine

    November 15, 2016 at 10:15 pm

    Yeah thank you mary
    Now i fully understand and i will find im my subconscious any blockages and i will replace them. Love money love life love human species .
    you agree because love is what that attract thing love money attract money. Love is our magnet.

    Reply
    • Mary Morrissey

      November 17, 2016 at 7:10 pm

      Thank you for your words Josue! Yes, LOVE is our magnet!
      Please share this with your friends and family and stay tuned for the next articles at: marymorrissey.com/blog

      Reply
  18. Rosheni Moodley

    November 15, 2016 at 9:52 pm

    Fine

    Reply
  19. Rosheni Moodley

    November 15, 2016 at 9:50 pm

    Awesome stuff to learn from – never thought of money in that way!

    Reply
  20. Cynthia

    November 15, 2016 at 7:52 pm

    It is lovely to have money and go shopping and buy what you want.it is lovely not to have any worries over money. Years ago I sold my house and gave my money to a group I belonged to. I volunteered to work for and live with the group. I decided a year or two later I didn’t like what I was doing.and went back to my home town. All I had was$20.00. I found a friend who was willing to rent me a room and wait for the cash. I did any kind of work until I finally got back to what I liked to do. Now I have a beautiful home and enough pensions to live a happy life. I am 86 years old

    Reply
    • Mary Morrissey

      November 17, 2016 at 7:12 pm

      Oh dear Cynthia, thank you for sharing your journey with us! I love it! It truly is an inspiring one… please share it with as many people as you can. Also share this article if you may, thru email or thru facebook… Im sure your comments will move many souls!

      Reply
  21. Sandhiya

    November 15, 2016 at 7:27 pm

    Thank you Mary, I really needed to hear these words of wisdom!

    Reply
  22. David Leon

    November 15, 2016 at 6:48 pm

    Money doesn’t necessarily lead to freedom, because it doesn’t necessarily help you overcome fear – fear of death and fear of living like you have nothing to lose. For that, you need to realize that, “death only happens to other people.”
    Be brave,
    David

    Reply
  23. Oscar Osorio

    November 15, 2016 at 6:48 pm

    Thank you for that video. It’s liberating!

    Reply
    • Mary Morrissey

      November 17, 2016 at 7:14 pm

      Thank you for your comment Oscar! Many people can feel like you… please share the article with your friends and family!

      Reply
  24. Paul

    November 15, 2016 at 6:15 pm

    What can you say about the Bible passage that says that the love of money is root of all evil 1Timothy 6:10.

    Thank you

    Nweze Paul

    Reply
    • Mary Morrissey

      January 27, 2017 at 6:30 pm

      Thank you for your message Paul. I would like to share with you the comments from Lisa S.:

      “Wonderful message and a good antidote to the pervasive messaging in today’s culture. I am a newly ordained minister teaching metaphysical perspectives of Scripture. In the parable of the “rich young man” I found that Jesus doesn’t tell him to “Give all your possessions to the poor.” Rather there’s a distinct step beforehand; he said go “SELL your possessions and give to the poor.” To SELL something we must contemplate its value, both the value its had for us, the effort it took to acquire that, and the value of what we’re sharing.”

      I think it makes a lot of sense! We can love money, abundance, but always holding GRATITUDE as a vane!

      Have a great day!

      Reply
  25. Joan

    November 15, 2016 at 4:53 pm

    i would like to learn to love money and stay spiritual.

    Reply
  26. Milena

    November 15, 2016 at 4:49 pm

    Hi Mary, thank you Soo much for your incredibly inspiring story!! It moved me deeply and I felt a big shift thank you from the depth of my soul. Bless you and all your loved ones now & always. I am a spiritual director working on my first book now and hope to speak to you in person one day. I may also upgrade my coaching skills with one of your programs as well.

    In loving Reverence,
    Milena Vigliotta

    Reply
    • Mary Morrissey

      November 17, 2016 at 7:18 pm

      Milena… I’m so happy to read your comment! We will definitely get to meet each other soon. Congratulations for keeping up the good work and for taking your coaching skills to the next level. Please feel free to email our team at [email protected] if you should experience any trouble or if you need help while going thru the program.

      Reply
  27. Sushil Trivedi

    November 15, 2016 at 4:38 pm

    INTERESTING

    Reply
  28. Zona

    November 15, 2016 at 4:33 pm

    I recognize my limiting beliefs and want to change them.

    Reply
  29. Lisa S

    November 2, 2016 at 3:45 pm

    Wonderful message and a good antidote to the pervasive messaging in today’s culture. I am a newly ordained minister teaching metaphysical perspectives of Scripture. In the parable of the “rich young man” I found that Jesus doesn’t tell him to “Give all your possessions to the poor.” Rather there’s a distinct step beforehand; he said go “SELL your possessions and give to the poor.” To SELL something we must contemplate its value, both the value its had for us, the effort it took to acquire that, and the value of what we’re sharing.

    Reply
    • Mary Morrissey

      January 27, 2017 at 6:27 pm

      Thank you Lisa!

      Reply

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