How To Shift Your Mindset And Overcome What’s Keeping You Stuck

“If you were living a successful life you loved, what would it look like?”

This is one of the simplest, yet most profound questions that I ask my clients – but most people never stop to answer for themselves.

The reason this is such an important question is because “success” means different things to different people.

To some, it can mean greater financial abundance or a more rewarding business or career, while to others it can mean a loving relationship or more health, energy and vitality.

Whatever success means to you, it may surprise you to know that the only thing standing between you and the results you would love is your mindset.

Most of us have a vision of what we’d love our lives to look like, but we fail to take the steps to transform that vision into reality… because of the sneaky limiting beliefs holding us back.

But this is actually good news… 

Because it means that you have the power to shift your mindset and create the success you desire.

I know this to be true because I’ve invested the last 40+ years of my life teaching people how to do just that.

It’s possible to have a dream and turn it into your real life.

The first step to overcome limiting beliefs is to become aware of them.

You’ve probably heard a version of each of these common limiting beliefs. 

You may think some of them are true, “common sense,” or you might not think they’re that big of a deal. But in reality, these insidious negative thoughts keep you in your comfort zone and prevent you from achieving your dreams.

Examples of limiting beliefs about money and abundance include:

“I’m not good with money”

“You have to work hard to succeed”

“You can’t have it all”

“If it seems too good to be true, it probably is”

Once you learn about the negative beliefs that might be impacting you, notice them. Then, switch them for empowering beliefs. 

You see, your beliefs aren’t set in stone. 

In this way, you take away the power they have over your dreams and your mind, so you can start living the life you’d truly love.

Let’s dive in… 

The Top 10 Self Limiting Beliefs

We all pick up false beliefs while we’re growing up. But not everybody learns to see through these beliefs and create the life they desire. 

That’s why some people stay stuck in jobs, relationships, and lifestyles they don’t love, while other people forge ahead and create things that might have seemed impossible considering their circumstances.

If you want to transform your results and create a life you truly love living, it’s important to shine a light on the areas of your life you want to change – that includes putting a name to the hidden beliefs you may be holding onto about success. 

This process is crucial in order to repattern your thinking and attract more of what you’d love into your life.

As you explore this list, and check with yourself if one (or many) of these beliefs resonate with you:

#1: “Success Isn’t Worth The Hassle”

You might think that there couldn’t possibly be a “downside to success” – but people with this negative belief, perceive success as having unintended consequences that outweigh the positives.

This belief shows up in several of the most common fears, questions and doubts about success…

• What will people think of me?
• What if my friends don’t grow like I do?
• Will my parents accept my choices?
• Will my friends think I’m competing with them?
• Who will I spend time with if I lose all of my friends?

This fear is powerful. We all care about what others think of us from time to time — this is just a part of being human.

But it’s another thing when the fear of being rejected stops you from going after your dreams. When this belief gets a hold on you, you stop living your life – and start living life for other people!

Remember that being successful and living a life you love are the best gifts that you can share with the world.

When you are happy, this energy ripples out into the world around you, and you inspire others to pursue what makes them happy, too.

#2: “I’m Not Ready” 

Who ever feels 100% ready to take a leap into the unknown?

Feeling like you’re not ready or that the timing isn’t quite right for you yet is actually called the perfectionist paradigm — you’re waiting for the stars to align before you embark on your journey… 

But it’s by taking action that you get in alignment with your dreams!

Not to mention, that “the perfect time” rarely happens. In reality, this focus on getting everything right from the start is just a mask for procrastination.

That’s why so many people choose to live unhappy lives – without realizing that the problem is not their circumstance, but rather the fear they have around pulling themselves up and out of the rut they’re stuck in.

You could wait for the perfect time, for the perfect person to show up and help you, or for the perfect circumstances to appear, but all you’ll do is end up waiting!

Instead, you can do exactly what I teach my clients: move toward your dreams simply by doing what you can, from where you are, with what you have.

#3: “I’m Just Waiting For The Other Shoe to Drop”

Have you ever thought to yourself, “This is too good to be true! Something bad is bound to happen.”

Sometimes, when we get a taste of success, the sensation is unfamiliar. We’re not sure it’s real.

It’s delicious, mouth-watering, but it can’t possibly last, can it?

That’s when fear makes its presence known in the form of worry, doubt, and even scarcity.

This is just a symptom that you’re expanding, venturing out of your comfort zone. It will take a while before your nervous system and your unconscious mind get familiar with your “new normal.”

And keep in mind that, once we begin moving toward our goals and dreams on a regular basis (no matter how big or small the step), success is inevitable.

#4: “People Who Succeed Are Just Lucky”

I believe that there is no such thing as luck when it comes to success.

Believing that luck brings people success means that we are at the mercy of events beyond our control, for better or worse.

The belief that we are governed by elements external to us is the same belief that makes us victims instead of the architects of our own lives.

In reality, there is a power within each of us that is far greater than any circumstance, situation or condition we will ever find ourselves in. When we recognize this, we shift our energy into a higher vibrational frequency and start naturally attracting more opportunities for success into our lives.

Also, success requires action, and the actions we take are always within our control.

So achieving success has nothing to do with luck, but rather with recognizing that you are more powerful than your circumstances and that you can always choose to take action in service of your dreams!

#5: “Success Requires Sacrificing What Matters Most”

We often hear sayings like “no pain, no gain,” or “everything comes at a cost,” but neither of these things is entirely true.

While transforming your dreams into reality can take time and energy, it doesn’t mean selling your soul or losing what brings you joy in the process.

Yes, there are indeed people who achieve great financial success working 80 hours per week – costing them their health, and relationships… 

But that doesn’t mean it’s the only way to attract abundance – and it certainly doesn’t mean that it has to be that way for YOU!

When you become familiar with the Law of Money, you’ll start manifesting prosperity in a way that allows you to enjoy more of the things that matter to you:

Playing with your kids (or grandkids), taking time for a new hobby, volunteering in your community, or supporting local businesses… it’s up to you to decide! 

#6: “If You Want More In Life, You’re Selfish” 

This negative belief often stems from a misconception that prioritizing our desires is somehow wrong. 

If you’re used to putting other people’s needs before your own, it’s likely that this belief is running in the shadow of your subconscious mind.

But here’s the truth: pursuing your dreams and desires isn’t selfish; it’s an act of self-love. When you’re living your best life, you radiate positivity and inspire others to do the same.

Remember that you can only pour from a full cup – and the happier, more fulfilled you feel, the better you can show up for your loved ones. 

#7: “Success Only Comes With Hard Work” 

Ah, the old “hustle mentality.” 

While taking action is important, it doesn’t mean things must be hard. 

If you find yourself thinking this way, shift this programming by asking yourself “What if it were easy?”

Most of the time we judge the effort something will take based on our previous experiences – but when we become a vibrational frequency to our dreams, new pathways, ideas and solutions open up in front of us… 

Propelling us and helping us achieve our goals faster and with greater ease.

The Law of Abundance teaches us that our thoughts and beliefs play a significant role in shaping our reality. By shifting your mindset from one of struggle to one of abundance, you open yourself up to infinite possibilities.

#8: “I’m not worthy” 

This belief is like a self-fulfilling prophecy – it prevents you from going after your dreams, and it’s precisely because of this inaction that your dreams haven’t become a reality yet…

Your mind uses this as “evidence” that these dreams are not meant for you…

Which in turn keeps you stuck in a cycle of feeling unworthy. 

But here’s the truth: You are inherently worthy of all the blessings life has to offer. 

You are a spiritual being, living a human experience – which means that you have a direct connection with the Infinite, and you’re capable of achieving anything you set your mind to. 

Embrace your worthiness and watch as abundance flows effortlessly into your life.

#9: Fear of loss 

We’ve all experienced moments where we lost something dear to us. 

Whether it’s breaking up with a significant other, being laid off after a company downsizing, the discomfort of seeing your paycheck go away after paying your bills, or the passing away of a relative, the feeling of loss can be tough for anyone.

That’s why our subconscious mind can try to avoid loss at all costs.

But that’s exactly the reason that this belief can hold us back from taking risks and seizing opportunities. 

If your mind wants you to avoid a breakup, you won’t even approach the person you’re interested in. Or perhaps your mind wants to protect you from future embarrassment and financial hardship, so you don’t launch your own business in the first place.  

Just remember, there are always more blessings coming your way. Trust that the universe has your back, and open yourself to the possibilities.

#10: “I don’t have time.” 

This is the age-old line we tell ourselves when we’re feeling overwhelmed and stretched thin. 

The thing is, we all have the same 24 hours in a day – it’s how we choose to use them that matters. 

Instead of saying “I don’t have enough time,” try saying “I choose to prioritize what’s important to me.” 

By managing your time effectively and making room for the things that bring you joy, you’ll find that there’s always time for abundance in your life.

I encourage you to schedule time on your calendar to take the steps you need to make your dreams come true. Treat this time with respect and love, and protect it as you would any of your other commitments. 

It doesn’t matter how long or short this time is, as long as you’re consistent, you’ll make great progress faster than you realize!

How to Get Unstuck For Good

So there you have it — a glimpse into the common beliefs that might be holding you back from experiencing the fullness of life. 

But fear not, for every limiting belief is simply an opportunity for growth. 

If you’d love to step into your power, and create a life filled with abundance, success, and joy…

If you dream of a life that’s fuller, freer, and more inspiring…

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