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9 Flirty Texts That Will Make Him Want You Instantly!

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By: Mat Boggs
Updated: March 1, 2018

CAUTION: Only Send These Flirty, Steamy Texts If You’re Ready to Ignite His Desire and Turn Him On

Have you ever been in the situation where your man wants you to send him a sexy text and you think to yourself “Oh crap!” You want to send him something that’ll turn him on, but you don’t really don’t know what to say, or maybe you feel sort of shy or weird about it!

No need to stress –here’s a cheat sheet of 9 flirty texts you can send him that are sure to make his pulse race and keep things hot and steamy between the two of you!

9 flirty texts

And keep in mind that these flirty texts are geared toward couples in committed, intimate relationships… those who have sex regularly but want to turn up the hotness factor between them. I mention this because the following texts may be a little too steamy to send to someone you’re just getting to know! 😉

Without further ado, drumroll please…

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FLIRTY TEXT #1: “Darn you…”

You: Darn you…

Him: What?

You: Just thinking about you has me all hot and bothered. Maybe you could come over and help? 😉

This is a great text to send to your man pretty much any time, because he’s gonna respond! Letting him know you’re turned on is going to immediately turn him on, trust me.

FLIRTY TEXT #2:“Hold on…”

Okay, so this one works well if you’re texting back and forth late at night and you want to boost the sexiness of the conversation.

You: Hold on, it’s getting really cold in here… I’m going to go put some clothes on now.

Now before he even has a chance to respond, he can’t help but think: Wait a minute… you were naked the whole time we’ve been texting?!

And then he’ll immediately think about you naked! Because listen, if you let a man know you’re naked, he’s imagining you naked, and it’s gonna get him revved up.

So don’t be surprised if he immediately tries to FaceTime you in response, just sayin’!

FLIRTY TEXT #3: “Want to play a game?”

You: Want to play a game?

Him: Sure, what’s up?

You: Guess what color panties I’m wearing.

Him: Blue?

You: No

Him: Red?

You: No

And this may go on however long he continues guessing, until you say…

You: I’m not wearing any.

And BOOM. Now you have his full attention. And trust me, this one is sure to get him mind reeling! Don’t be surprised if this becomes his new favorite game.

FLIRTY TEXT #4: “I had a dream last night…”

This one works best to send in the morning.

You: I had a naughty dream about you last night…

Now let me tell you, any time a woman uses the word naughty? It just feels so… well, naughty! And it piques our attention right away.

After a text like this, he’ll just have to know what was happening in the dream and what you were actually doing, which opens up a whole new sexy conversation!

FLIRTY TEXT #5: “Guess what today is?”

Now this one is a little fun and goofy, so it’ll be especially great if that fits your personality.

You: Guess what today is?

Him: What?

You: Well I heard it’s naked day… we should celebrate!

And if you’ve got a fun man, he’ll definitely be down to celebrate when he gets home.

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FLIRTY TEXT #6: “I’m still wearing that smile you gave me…”

I love this flirty text because it’s fun, a little subtle and highly effective. It works really well to send the night after you’ve had a fun, sexy time together.

You: I’m still wearing that smile you gave me.

While this text is pretty sweet, it’ll also remind him of having a fun, intimate time together, and totally stimulate him.

Now men like to feel like they’ve accomplished something, so this text will also make him feel good about himself and charged up – like he did a great job at giving you a good time!

FLIRTY TEXT #7: “Stop that…”

This flirty text is a little bantery and little feisty. It goes something like this…

You: Hey. Stop thinking about me. I need to focus.

And maybe throw a little winky face in there for added flavor. 😉 Actually, that works for most of these texts!

What’s cool about this text is that it’s a flirty way to tell him that you’re thinking about him during the day when you’re apart. It’s a great way to get a teasing, fun back-and-forth going between you two.

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FLIRTY TEXT #8: “There’s something I’d rather be doing…”

Okay now this is a good one to send during the day when you’re both at work.

You: There’s something I’d much rather be doing right now than working!

Him: What’s that?

You: You.

Great, clever text to send to your man, and super fun way to break up the work grind, huh?

FLIRTY TEXT #9: BONUS TEXT!

Okay now the last flirty text is kinda sassy and silly, but here it is!

You: Wanna get tacos?

Now, I mean, come on, who doesn’t want to get tacos? Fun date night, right?

But if he’s got a little bit of a dirty mind, there’s definitely a double entendre there, you know? And if he doesn’t, then hey, he very likely still wants to get tacos with you! And then you have a fun opportunity to get flirty with him in person.

The key to sending flirty, steamy texts is keeping it playful!

Remember, these texts are all sent in good fun to someone you already care about deeply – they’re not meant to make you feel squirmy or silly! Explore what feels fun and sexy together and believe me when I say that you have no reason to be shy… men LOVE flirty banter.

Now I’d love to hear from you! What texts have you sent to your man that have gotten a great response? What about ones that may have fallen a little flat? Share these with me in the comments below, I’d love to hear from you!

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About Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs is known by many as one of the world’s leading experts in the areas of love and relationships. Through his revolutionary coaching programs, “Cracking the Man Code,” Mat Boggs has helped millions of women around the world attract true love and create fulfilling relationships that last. He has also built a highly successful coaching business, written a best-selling book, shared the stage with some of the industry’s biggest names like Jack Canfield, Les Brown, Bob Proctor, and Brendon Burchard, and been featured on The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, and more.

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