You know that phase at the beginning of every relationship where you’re having such an incredible time and you just want to tell the person exactly how you feel?
But you’re worried it’s too soon to share something that deep…
Or that it might scare him away…
So you hold back on sharing those thoughts.
Well I’ve got good news for you!
Chances are, if you’re having butterflies and you can’t stop smiling whenever you think of him, it’s more than likely he feels the exact same way!
(I’ll give you a few moments to jump around the room :D)
It’s a great feeling! And no doubt he’s working up the courage to share with you some of the same feelings you’ve been having.
But you don’t have to wait for him to speak up to know he really likes you! In this article, we’re going to take a shortcut to clarity.
I’m going to show you inside your man’s head…
And share with you 5 secret thoughts your man has when he’s totally into you.
These aren’t just my educated guesses… These come from my community!
Thanks to a group of incredible women, the following are real shares from real women to whom men have revealed what they were thinking.
Let’s get into it…
- “You can’t get rid of me that easily!”
This one came from a comment from Norie, a woman in my youtube community. She explains that she was feeling vulnerable around her man because things were starting to get serious. She was hesitant and started getting cold feet because she was worried about getting hurt, so she told her man they should stop talking. He immediately said “Nope, you can’t get rid of me that easily because I’m going to stick around and annoy you!”
I love this example because it reaffirms the principle that it’s hard to scare off the right guy!
So if you’re ever in a similar situation where you tell him about your flaws or try to push him away, he’s most likely thinking “I’m going to stand strong and fight for you”.
And if you come from this belief that he’s going to fight for you, there’s a double benefit, because not only does it help you relax and have more fun, but that relaxed state also supports the development of a great relationship.
- “Oh yeah? Watch me”
When I first started dating my wife, she was living with her parents. Early on she told me, “I can’t do the things other women you’ve dated have done, you can’t spend the night over here, I’m not spending the night over there. You will probably get bored with this and bail, like other guys have”.
Well immediately I felt this wave of conviction run over me that said, “I must like this woman way more than those other guys, because that doesn’t scare me. You think I won’t stay?! Watch me!”
If you’ve ever found yourself saying something similar to your man, know that a man who’s into you will rise to the challenge! He will feel this resolve rise up in him and he’ll hear himself say, “Oh yeah, watch me. I’ll prove you wrong!”
3. “Oh man, I’m in trouble”
This is the thought a man thinks when he’s falling in love with you. He knows his heart is already committed, regardless of how slow he’s telling himself he should take it.
He’s falling hard for you!
When that’s the case, he might think “I’m in trouble” because he knows that if things don’t work out he’s going to get hurt. A courageous man will actually tell you this!
4. “I hope she likes this!”
When your man has planned a date for you, or is taking you somewhere, he might be acting really cool on the surface, but inside there’s a big part of him that’s thinking… “I hope she really likes this!”
As a man, his self worth is often directly connected to productivity and effectiveness. In relationships, this means he wants to be a man who can effectively produce happiness for his woman… a man who can surprise her with things she absolutely loves.
Your response here is the most crucial thing for him. So if you’re happy, I encourage you to praise him and admire the effort of what he created for you.
5. “I have to share this with her”
When we love someone, we want to share life’s beautiful moments with them. Life is so much more rich when shared with someone we love. And when a man experiences something cool, he wants to share it with you!
The man who’s into you is going to send you photos or videos of what he’s doing, he’s going to try to teach you games or hobbies he’s into because he’s often thinking: “This is cool, but it would be even better if I could share it with her”!
So there you have the 5 secret thoughts a man has when he’s totally into you.
If you enjoyed getting the inside scoop on how men think, I’m sure you’ll love my free 5 Feminine Qualities High Quality Men Find Irresistible Ebook.
It’s the perfect compliment to this article. Inside, you’ll learn what triggers him to have the secret thoughts we mentioned above, and how you can amplify your feminine energy to make him long to spend more time with you!
Finally, I’d love to hear from you:
What thoughts has a man shared with you, that had you know he was totally into you?