These are phrases REAL women from our community have successfully used to trigger even more attraction from their partner! Using these, you’ll grab his attention, make him melt, and leave him wanting more!
A couple of months back, I put up a video called “4 words that trigger love in a man”.
I then asked you as a community to post phrases you’ve seen trigger more love and attraction from your man.
And the response was absolutely incredible…
The insights I’m about to share with you are from real women experiencing real success in their love lives. These are phrases that when used, captivate his attention, and make him totally smitten!
NOTE: The phrases I’m about to show you work best when you’re exclusively dating your man, or you’re married. Not to say these can’t work in the beginning of a relationship, but know that some of them might scare a guy off in the discovery phase!
Warning aside, let’s check them out…
- “Good job hun!” – I love this because “good job” is so often overlooked — it’s so simple and yet it’s what’s most important for your man; knowing he’s doing a good job for you!
- “I feel safe with you” – Want to know why this works? Men are hardwired to defend and protect their loved-ones from outside threats. By you saying you feel safe with him, you’re signaling that he’s doing a great job at one of his core missions as a man… To protect those he cares about!
- “You love me in a way I never imagined possible!” – Every man is seeking to meet his woman’s expectations and make her happy. But what’s beyond achieving expectations? Exceeding them! By telling him he’s giving you something you never imagined possible, you’re giving him a KING-sized compliment! He’ll feel on top of the world!
- “You make me feel like anything is possible when we are together!” – Men love having a positive impact on their woman. To know he’s changed your world for the better is a huge payoff for him. By telling him he makes you feel like anything is possible, he knows his presence has changed not only how you feel, but how you are relating to possibilities in life – very powerful!
- “Do you know how sexy you are, Honey?” – Your man wants and actually needs to know that you desire him… more than you realize! A great way to communicate this is by simply saying the words “You are sexy”. Trust me – it’ll drive him wild!
- “Thank you” – I know it’s simple. But this one makes the list because it’s so powerful! When you say “thank you” with sincere energy, you’ll often see an immediate, physical shift in your man. Men love to know they’re serving you well!
- “I respect you” – Hands down, THE best phrase for a man to hear… This hits his deepest psychological need, to be respected! It will absolutely grab his attention. But be prepared to answer why you respect him, or what qualities he has that you admire!
- “I’m proud of you” – You may not be aware of this but — your man is proud of YOU. We’re blown away by how impressive our women are! How much you can get done, how you freakin’ remember where everything is, and how generous and thoughtful you are. What your man wants is to feel that you are proud of him too!
- “You’re my hero” – This one is definitely silly, but when used in a sincere but playful tone, it’s really effective. Your man will go from feeling like clark kent to superman, when you hero-size him. And it doesn’t have to be for big stuff. This phrase can be effective even for the small things, like if he picks up dinner and you’re starving:
“You are my hero, I was so hungry!”
Instant superman moment!
- “I’m so grateful for everything we’ve accomplished together, sweetie” – I love this because it works with deep psychology. Men love to be on a winning team! When you can give him this winning team feeling, it’s a very powerful trigger to make him want to win even more with you!
The Power Of Words Doesn’t Stop There!
Words have incredible power when it comes to boosting how your man feels. A man’s form of communication is literal, so the clearer you can be about how you feel, the more he’s going to absolutely love it!
But the best part is, these phrases don’t even have to be in person… texting works just as well!
If you fancy a little extra help in that department, I’d love for you to check out my How To Text Guys eBook. You’ll discover even more phrases, hints and tips, tailored to speaking through text.
Now let’s keep this conversation going… What phrases have you used that have melted your man? Comment below.